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| | Subject: Please help me... Boyfriend issue. | Posted: June 26, 2009 @ 6:39 AM | | First of all...I need all the advice I can get.
I've been searching the web and found a link to this forum...
And you all seem nice and informative.
Okay...here's the deal:
Been with my boyfriend for 8 months.
The first 3 months of our relationship...he was going thru a divorce.
I told him my issue with that. I didnt think it was right. So we kind of put everything on hold until that was final.
Well, he was getting divorced bc he cheated on his wife.
But I fell in love with him, he claims hes a different person and my gosh...i see SO much good in him.
He's actully been married twice. I'm not sure still what happened with the first marriage. He's led me to believe she cheated on him tho.
Anyway...
These 8 months have been pretty great.
He's been open and honest with me since he knows thats important to me.
He even gave me a key to his house.
He says I can go over anytime.
And when hes at work, i go over and let his dog out, etc.
he talks about marriage and just makes me feel so amazing.
his ex-wife just cslled him a while back. he told me about it. said she was crying and said she wasnt happy, etc.
i used to get mad...but now, i realize that if i want him to keep telling me things, i cant get mad or he'll just hide stuff.
well....
yesterday, i was at his house while he was at work.
i opened up his laptop so i could check my email while i was there.
well, his email was still logged in.
and something caught my eye right away.
i saw an email from a girls name...and the subject was..."pics for you".
well, yeah...maybe i shoudlnt have, but i clicked on it.
it was some girl he used to know from australia.
he's briefly told me about her bc i have asked him to tell me all about his past...
well, she wrote him a very sexy email and then, attached about 5 pics of her in sexy lingere.
showing her boobs, etc....
well, below that, i see that he emailed her back.
telling her how sexy she still looks, and how curvy she is.
he wrote her a long email just telling her how he's doing...yet didnt mention he was in a relationship.
then...at the end, he asks her if she has anymore pics.
and i didnt see any that he attached....but after that...theres another email from her. she thanked him for sending the pictures of himself and says how good he looks and how the pics made her say "fu** me!!".
again, i didnt see any pics he sent so maybe he did it over his phone...
then, she says, i'll take some more just for you.
well, i went back to his house....to see if she emailed him back.
but, his email wasnt up anymore.
ya'll....i dont know what to do.
is this behavior okay??
i told him we have to talk tonight.
he knows something is up but has no idea what.
please...i need advice.
thank you.
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| | | | | | Subject: Please help me... Boyfriend issue. | Posted: June 27, 2009 @ 2:58 AM | | yes, so you have issue. AS per your written matter only something can be told. Anyway, if its your destiny, lets face it.
Now, you are 3rd girl in his life as far as you know. Now 4th is coming. Male has increasinlgy attacking upon the girl to have them in more numbers, is the tendency. girls are more absorbant than male in such attacking manners. So its the 4th girl being attacked and also you would be cheated, if this incidence is true.
One more matter of male,let me highlight you, you might be not knowing, it is, some male keep themselves ignite with sex thought such relationship to keep happy his-spouse or his girl friend in sexual life. Means extracting the scene from others and infusing in yours. So while talking only such thing may come out.
As he has already left 2 girls and 4th one may be in queue then it means he makes fool to you girl. Be aware that. But if its not, he requires sympathy and more love from you.
Yes, this is not end, tell me for sure what happend after talk. |
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