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| | Subject: Need some opinions...Please | Posted: May 18, 2009 @ 3:25 PM | | | Hi my name is Cassidy and im new on this site. I am hoping that maybe a few of you have a couple of suggestions on my situation. Ok so i have gained weight obviously and im not as secure as i used to be a few years ago. I havent dated in a couple of years because i was disgusted with myself and then it bacame a down pour from there, but recently i have joined a couple dating sites and have met a few of the guys and its never any good. This past weekend i met another one of the guys who I had been talking to since the middle of January and all was great there. On this site i had my photos up so he knew i wasnt a skinny girl, but a girl with curves and he assured me that he likes all size women. So we went and rented some movies and went back to his place talked for awhile and watched a couple of movies. Well when i left he was texting me and saying things like i hope you had fun it kind of seemed like you were ready to run out of here, and we should do this again sometimes after i assured him that i also had fun and wasnt rushing was just tired which was the truth. So the next day he texts me with " Im sorry i just dont know what i want right now and ive been thinking like this for awhile now, but i want to be friends i enjoy having you in my life.... The same speech i have been getting from a lot of guys lately, and its driving me insane. Im a fun person and enjoy who i am on the outside and ill go in confindent and happy with myself and still get the boot. I talked with one of my best guy friends and he said they want to be my friend because i really am kick ass, but that doesnt make it any better.... Please if anyone has any suggestions on this topic let me know somethings i can try .... Thank you |
| | | | | | Subject: Need some opinions...Please | Posted: May 18, 2009 @ 6:08 PM | | Girlfriend, you are beautiful !!
I would just chalk it up to experience and continue playing the dating game, because that's all it is, is just a game.
Hold your head high and move on 
Believe me, I am older, Still single and still getting the "I'll call you" from the guys I go out on dates with and believe me deep down most of the time I am Praying that they Dont call ! LOL
I've gone through the same thing thinking "well what if I was skinny, would I still be getting the same reactions" what if, what if, what if ?
Bottom line, Women no matter what size we are should Never settle, NEVER !!
I say continue being yourself, continue being who you are and God will bring the right man into your life when it's time (believe me, I know it's easier said than done, but it will happen), but please continue to enjoy your life and don't give these men "who want friends" a second thought !!
You are way better than that.
Stay Beautiful and Stay True to Yourself!! 
PS - Welcome to the family !! 
Quoting: Cassidy
Hi my name is Cassidy and im new on this site. I am hoping that maybe a few of you have a couple of suggestions on my situation. Ok so i have gained weight obviously and im not as secure as i used to be a few years ago. I havent dated in a couple of years because i was disgusted with myself and then it bacame a down pour from there, but recently i have joined a couple dating sites and have met a few of the guys and its never any good. This past weekend i met another one of the guys who I had been talking to since the middle of January and all was great there. On this site i had my photos up so he knew i wasnt a skinny girl, but a girl with curves and he assured me that he likes all size women. So we went and rented some movies and went back to his place talked for awhile and watched a couple of movies. Well when i left he was texting me and saying things like i hope you had fun it kind of seemed like you were ready to run out of here, and we should do this again sometimes after i assured him that i also had fun and wasnt rushing was just tired which was the truth. So the next day he texts me with " Im sorry i just dont know what i want right now and ive been thinking like this for awhile now, but i want to be friends i enjoy having you in my life.... The same speech i have been getting from a lot of guys lately, and its driving me insane. Im a fun person and enjoy who i am on the outside and ill go in confindent and happy with myself and still get the boot. I talked with one of my best guy friends and he said they want to be my friend because i really am kick ass, but that doesnt make it any better.... Please if anyone has any suggestions on this topic let me know somethings i can try .... Thank you
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| | | | | | Subject: Need some opinions...Please | Posted: May 19, 2009 @ 10:02 AM | | | Thank you very much for the compliment, and i will do my best. LOL. Also very excited to be a part of the family.... |
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